Only the happiest people know the 'law of attraction' | Selina shoe
We all grew up with the American Dream which teaches us that if you work hard you will eventually succeed and make tremendous amounts of money. And this idea implies that making a lot of money makes us happy.
As a result, it gives us the equation that hard work eventually leads to our finding happiness.
But what if that were a flawed equation? What if we felt happy first to achieve all the success we ever wished for, and not only that, but that success would come easy to us if we did not strive to achieve it?
This is exactly what the principles of the Law of Attraction teach us.
The shocking truth is, when you struggle, you are blocking your own goals.
Law of Attraction teacher Abraham compares the process of manifestation to a boat in a stream. You can either let your boat flow downstream or have a hard time navigating it upstream.
Whenever you feel good and allow yourself to flow, then you float towards your goals.
However, when you are struggling really hard to achieve something, you are working against the current and actually blocking your goals from manifesting.
Our emotions are the key to understanding which way our boat is going. Simply put, when we experience negative emotions, we struggle. When we feel a positive emotion, we go with the flow.
What does that really mean in everyday situations?
Let's say you are looking for a partner. Your search was unsuccessful because you do not feel like you can get in touch with a man on an intimate level.
You want children and you feel anxious because your physical clock is ticking. Every time you go on a new date, you bring this underlying fear with you.
Dating becomes a struggle and something that creates fear, because with each failed date, your fear increases. In this situation, even if you are excited about every new person you meet, the main emotion that brings you on the date is fear or concern.
Essentially, your boat is emotionally struggling against the current.
So how do you turn this situation around?
You step out of the situation completely and feel better.
This may mean not dating for a while until you can feel better about the situation, because in your current emotional state, all of the partners you are going to be attracted to are mismatched.
The interesting thing about Law of Attraction is that you don't have to feel really good about dating, you just have to feel good about yourself. You can feel good about EVERYTHING to shift your vibration.
For me, hiking is the trick. I love to be in nature. It grounds and I feel at peace. So if I'm not feeling well, I lace up my hiking boots and set off.
As I walk, I can hear the conversation in the shift of my head. At first, I may be upset and moody, but after a brief period of time where my heart could beat faster and enjoy the scenery, the chatter becomes more gentle and grateful.
This subtle change in my emotions allows me to relax and spin my proverbial boat down the drain. This is the state in which I allow manifestations to enter my life. In this state, the man of your dreams may cross your trail.
Of course, most of the time going for a hike isn't going to put away all of your fear of dating.
The key is to fill your life with moments of happiness as often as possible.
This means choosing activities that bring you joy and creating a life that you love, whether or not a man comes to you. This is the place where you can dispel your fear of dating.
The good news in all of this is that we are in control. Nobody but us can take our luck into their own hands.
Here are a few simple Law of Attraction tips to keep your daily life happy:
1. Check with your emotions.
As the day progresses, make it a habit of asking yourself, "How am I doing now?"
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If you are feeling emotions that you enjoy, then you are on the right track. If you notice that you are feeling anxious, anxious, or depressed (or any other emotion that you don't enjoy), it is a sign that you are still far from flowing downstream. If you can't remember to check in, you can set an alarm on your phone.
2. Just feel the emotion without getting caught up in it.
It is easy when we are upset and realize that we are upset to create a downward spiral. You know you don't want to get upset, but you do, so you judge yourself.
Stand back and label the emotion you are feeling simply, "I feel upset."
3. Take responsibility and create change.
The moment you become aware that you are feeling negative, either allow yourself to feel the emotion without judgment and then move on, or choose an activity that you know will make you feel better.
For example, if you get upset about an argument instead of stewing over it, watch a comedy or read a book. This will disrupt your negative emotions and allow you to shift your energies.
Once you feel better, you can take a more relaxed approach to the fight and find solutions that you may not have been able to see while angry.
4. Feel good as often as possible.
Don't wait for any circumstances to make you feel better. You can create happiness here and now and don't have to wait for someone to grant you it.
Start by making a happy list of activities that make you feel good. You can start by downloading my free guide to creating your personal happiness list.
Having this list on hand will help you make conscious choices about activities that you know make you feel good, and is especially helpful when you feel you are in a negative mood.
So remember: your happiness is in your own hands and contrary to what our culture might teach us, well-being, joy and excitement will help you achieve your goals.
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Selina Schuh is a pedagogue, author, speaker and owner of Empowered Living Strategies. Read her book, Becoming Your Own Knight In Shining Armor. You can follow her on Facebook.
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